that you do this.

I hate that you do this.
That every time he builds himself up, you tear him down.
I hate that you hold so much power over him by virtue of your position and yet you only use it to destroy.

The Bible say that all those who curse shall be cursed themselves, and it really is a damn shame if that were to happen because it really would be all on you.

I listened to her tell me all about how when she told you that you probably shouldn't speak to him like that you told her that it was none of her business.

And i worry. I worry that if you continue to batter his spirit one day it will break. And when it does, what shall i be left with?
You may think that it's a selfish way of looking at things but lets be realistic here. What happens when you can no longer bring him down because there's nothing left to bring down?
hey say
Will it make your life that much special if his life is that much worse?

Think about it.
His success is your success and his failure is yours.
Therefore we need to be building up and not tearing down the ones we claim to love simply because we have an unmistakable relation.

You're a bully, that's what you are. One who can only make themselves feel better by sitting on someone else.
But darling, you best check yourself before you wreck yourself. After all, you know what they say,.. a candle loses nothing by lighting another.